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•  Do remember that YOU are responsible for your body
  No one knows your body better than you do. Your doctor is going by generalities but every body is different so don't give away your power to anyone. Take the responsibility of yourself. Here are some tips on how you can work WITH your doctor:
  
  - Before having surgery ask your doctor the right questions: Why, How, What, When, Where; what
  happens if I don't have surgery; are there other alternatives other than surgery; what are the risks and benefits; what % of these types of surgeries are successful; how long is the recovery period?
  
  - Get at least one or two other medical opinions prior to having surgery.
  
  - Tell your doctor about the medications, herbs and supplements you are taking. Most Western MDs are not familiar with alternative therapies, including herbs, but that does not mean they do not work.
  
  - Consult with your doctor to see if you can have less invasive laparoscopic surgery for your procedure.
  - Ask about the risks and effects of anesthesia.
  
  - Ask questions and do not apologize for asking questions. Remember you're paying the Doctor. He is working with you as a partner, not as a Medical Deity or your boss. Make a list of your questions prior, during and after each meeting with your doctor so you don't forget them and ask them!
  
  - Be persistent and use caring assertiveness.
  
  - Participate as much as you can in your healing process.

•  Do Deal with Your Emotions
  Learning that you are going to have or getting surgery comes with its very own pack of emotions: denial, anger, bargaining, sadness and acceptance. Learning to cope and deal with this in positive ways can help your healing process. You are what you think - so for a positive outcome - THINK POSITIVE! Here are some of the emotions you may have to deal with and some suggestions on how to handle them:
  
  - Denial or "Numbness": Look to balance your mind and work on looking at the real picture until you work your way into acceptance.
  
  - Anger: acknowledge it, take an appropriate action (e.g., Punch a pillow, go into a room by yourself and scream, walk around the block, draw a picture) then let it go.
  
  - Sadness- Let it out and cry, get support from friends, loved ones or a support group, start and write a your own healing journal, do artwork therapy, write a letter to yourself.
  
  - Worry - is a useless emotion which accomplishes nothing and eats up your time. Time in which you can be doing something positive to help your healing process. When you get a "worry" thought acknowledge that you have it and let it go immediately.
  
  - Change your emotions to positive ones like hope, joy and happiness.
  
  - Make your Environment Happy. Bring your favorite personal pictures, paintings, music, flowers and plants, aromatherapy fragrances with you to the hospital or even spruce up your room at home.
  
  - Avoid negative people and situations.
  
  - Make a list of supportive people and groups in your life and use the list!

•  Do Face Your Fears:
  Once you get a clear picture from your doctor on what is going to happen to you before, during and after your surgical procedure you will have eliminated some of the fears. If other fears persist as to outcome, possible death, etc. remember a couple of things:
  
  - The only thing to fear is fear itself. You are in God's hands and will be all right - no matter what. Even if death occurs remember that it is not the end, but a transition. There is life on the other side, so you really never die you pass over to a better place. So reconcile with your fear of death.
  
  - You create your reality with your thoughts. So if you feel, know and trust that the outcome will be positive and that you will heal - YOU WILL.
  
  - Positive Energy resonates to a higher energetic frequency than negative. Positive energy that can make you feel good and help you face your fears can be activated by thought. The higher frequencies correlate with the upper chakras (esoteric electrical energy centers in the body) starting with the heart chakra and up to the crown chakra. To activate these centers -BUZZ. That's right just buzz like a bee. You will be surprised as to how this works.
  
  - Another helpful hint for fear is to BREATHE. Breathe in through the nose slowly and deeply and then breathe out with the mouth in a rhythmic pattern. This will immediately lower your pulse and heart rate and get you centered. Physically it activates the Vegas nerve which is the major quieting nerve in the body. The Vegas nerve starts at the base of the brain and branches out to the heart, lungs and intestinal track. By just breathing deeply it automatically quiets your body and centers you.
  
  - Remember fear is your friend, not an enemy. Society teaches us that fear should be avoided but you can reprogram your mind to make fear a friend. You can always learn something you fear and once you learn it the fear usually doesn't come back.
  
  - Remember there are 4 steps to managing fear and turning it into a positive emotion:
  1) Acknowledge your fear;
  2) Feel how the fear is affecting your body;
  3) Think about and determine what the best action is and
  4) Do the action. Putting off the action delays releasing the fear.
  
  - Let go of your fear, ego, rigid goals, expectations, negative attitudes and negative feelings and replace them with to Living in the Moment, trust, hope, positive intention and attitudes and positive feelings.

• Nice To Use: Bach Flower Remedies

  Bach Flower Remedy	Activity that aid, help or restore…
  Rock Rose, Aspen, Cherry Plum	Fear
  Gentian, Cerato, Hornbeam	Uncertainty
  Crab Apple, Willow, Elm	Despair
  Rescue Remedy	Stress

•  Do Deal with Stress
  To help your healing process here are some helpful hints you can use to deal with stress before, during and after surgery:
  - Use the POWER of Positive thought and positive intention
  - Meditate
  - Practice Relaxation for Rejuvenation
  - Use Visualization or Self-Hypnosis. You can visualize a time when you were in perfect health and everything was going 100% right in your life. Then anytime you are having a stressful time go back to that place, visualize it and feel the joy and happiness.
  - Listen to calming music
  - Pamper yourself with a candlelit bath, etc.
  - Use color therapy like soothing blues and greens.
  - Take a 1 minute stress break. Close your eyes. Tell yourself you are going to be stressed for 1 minute and at the end of 1 minute you will be stress free. It works!
  - Look in the mirror and use Positive Self-Talk to describe the outcome as you want it to be.
  - Avoid using negative words like I can't, I won't, I shouldn't, I couldn't. Replace them with I can, I will, etc.
  - Live in the Now, not the past or the future
  - Don't try to control things
  - Feel, trust and know things will be all right and they will
  
  

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